Yes, December is upon us yet again!
It’s a very special month for many reasons, not least of which because it signals the final days of another calendar year.
If you can take a few minutes out of planning your holiday or Christmas festivities then I have some food for thought I’d like to share with you before I retire for a few weeks to ease the writer’s cramp!
[box type=\”shadow\”]\”How did it get so late so soon? Its night before its afternoon. December is here before its June. My goodness how the time has flewn. How did it get so late so soon?\”
– Dr. Seuss[/box]
A sense of closure
Where in the world do you live?
I have to say, there’s something to be said about life in the southern hemisphere at this time of the year.
The sudden shock that comes with the realisation that another year is rapidly drawing to a close, is tempered by long and glorious sunny days, the thought of taking some time off work and, at least for some – a sense of closure.
In the northern hemisphere it’s a rather different proposition. The long summer holidays are either a faded memory or a far-off prospect and, at least from the perspective of the weather, there’s a lot less to be joyous about.
But the quid pro quo is the deep sense of tradition that surrounds the period when families typically come together to enjoy each other’s company.
Frantically busy?
No matter where you live, you just have to listen to the general conversation at the many social events to get a sense for how frantically busy everyone seems to be to finish up work before the holiday break.
You\’re also sure to hear grumblings about how difficult it is to get anything meaningful done in December and – my old favourite – how important decisions and life changes will just have to wait until the New Year when things are ‘back to normal’.
The ‘December madness’ is a wonderful excuse for putting things off!
Formula for a mass hangover
The trouble is that this collective procrastination often results in a massive collective hangover in January, when the holidays come to a close, the back-to-work novelty wears off and the regular daily routine catches up with us.
An ideal time
I’d like to recommend that you look at December through new eyes.
December, believe it or not, is an ideal time to tackle change and preparation for new initiatives.
Why?
Precisely because this is the month in which our normal day-to-day routines tend to get interrupted.
Act while the routine is broken
Our propensity for going beyond the status quo is dependent on our ability to extract ourselves from our daily routines, find time and inspiration to look at things differently and be prepared to take the action that we might otherwise not be ready, willing or able to do.
If you\’re seriously considering a change to your life, in whatever area, I urge you to use this special month to prepare the groundwork both mentally and physically.
Prepare now for no turning back
Take the action you need to now to ensure that there is no turning back when the afterglow of the festive period wears off and the cold harsh reality of your normal working routine hits home again in January.
You’ll doubtless be tempted to dismiss what I say because there\’s just ‘too much going on’ or ‘too many other distractions’.
But that\’s the whole point. Take action while you are distracted from your normal routine.
Take this advice seriously. You’ll be thankful in January.
Get ahead of the pack
When everyone else around you starts the time honoured process of thinking up New Year\’s resolutions … resolutions that in all likelihood will be consigned to the scrap heap before April … you’ll be up and running and ahead of the pack, putting the final touches to plans for genuine and sustainable personal growth and development.
Here\’s wishing you and all readers a fabulous –and action packed – December!
Superb article Bill!
Thank you Bill and Neil and Natasha for a wonderful year of upward curve learning, and high creativity. May you amply reap what you so generously sow. With kind regards, Wendy
Thank you kindly Wendy!
What wise words… Thanks, Bill – for these as well as all the guidance and mental stimulation/inspiration throughout the year.
I am proud to be part of your organisation, even as trainee-coach.
May you thoroughly enjoy the festive season with your family and friends!
With gratitude,
Wilma
Thank you Wilma. I hope you enjoy your holiday too 🙂
May you have a really blessed time with family and friends, Bill.
A time to reflect, rejoice and remember whilst taking a rest to be restored for the new year ahead. This year has had many challenges for most people and it’s people such as you that help others to get focus and direction to be able to reconsider their lives. Thank you for all your input.
Thanks Lorraine. I hope 2012 is a very different year!
Have a Blessed break with your family over this festive season and thank you so much for all the many words of wisdom and insights that you share with us all.
Here’s to a prosperous 2012 for you all.
Festive Cheer for All
Lindsay John
Thanks for being a loyal reader Lindsay 🙂
Thanks for your insightful and generous sharing, Bill. Over the past 2 months, I have been encouraged to see things differently, and I sincerely appreciate the opportunities for growth your life-coaching insights provide! May your time of rest provide for you a chance to be re-energized and rejuvenated with many Blessings of Light.
Diana
Thanks Diana. In my opinion there is little as powerful and invigorating as when you start to see things in a new light. A new ‘portal’ on the world and your life opens 🙂
Throughout the year I have greatly enjoyed your inspiring and creative submissions and thank you for that.
Wishing you and your family a wonderful season and a good start to the New Year, in health and prosperity.
You’re most welcome. Thanks Arjan!
Thank you for your Insights in 2011 Bill. Looking forward to 2012.
Planning a holiday is making the most of it. Enjoy the rest and may the true meaning of Christmas be your’s and your family’s for ever.
Blessings and drive safely.
Thanks and have a good one 🙂
Wishing you and yours a wonderful, and as you say Bill, a constructive Festive season. Your’e so right, no time to just collapse under the holiday atmosphere, but to plan and deck that armor, for the battle that is SURE to come in January. ( Be Prepared ) Be Blessed in your time, and many grateful thanks for ALL your concerted encouragement.
Best Regards in Love and Light
Dennis.
Thanks Dennis!
Very apt for me, i have set 6th January to write my exam, i will have time in the next few weeks to go over the modules. May you and your family have a blessed Christmas, AND A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR
Good for you Chris 🙂