To celebrate the amazing person you are, I have a gift for you. But first, let me explain why I chose to make this post a tribute to you, the reader. Thereβs no podcast version this week, so please read on.
As you might imagine, I spend a lot of my time explaining to anyone who cares, just how amazing and powerful life coaching can be when it is conducted with the necessary ethics, skill, caring andβabove allβpassion!
But I understand how those with an interest in joining the profession would hear what I have to say and think “Well you would say that, wouldn’t you!”
After all, I’ve spent 18 years of my life running New Insights, a company that specialises in training people to become quality life coaches.
So I had a thought.
‘Project Heart’
Why not invite some of our certified coaches to speak from their hearts and tell their authentic, ‘warts and all’ stories about how and why they got into life coaching and what it means to them?
And so, ‘Project Heart’ was born.
The aim was to co-create an ebook with 8-10 unfiltered stories with editing restricted to that required to present a consistent style, so as to maintain authenticity.
Knowing just how busy people are nowadays, and how difficult it might be to persuade people to find time to write stories with no real incentive other than to share their stories with others, I set out with expectations that were, admittedly, modest.
However, the response to my invitation caught me offguard. It was quick and emphatic.
I had hardly pressed send in my email client, and some 50% of the coaches I invited responded with: “For sure, count me in!” Β My mind quickly turned to wondering what it would take to steer the project to completion in a timeline that I hoped would be perhaps three months or so.
It turns out that I greatly underestimated the passion factor; the amazing passion for people that drives most New Insights Certified Life Coaches.
Just one month after first proposing the idea, the final draft of the ebook was done and dusted.
Special People
“Wow, I’m dealing with some very special people”, I reckoned!
So, I took some quality time to read through the final product and each of the stories that comprise it. A fundamental truth, one that I have always known and appreciated in my heart, was repeated and amplified.
Everyone is unique. Everyone has an amazing story to tell. Everyone is so very special, even if they haven’t yet come to appreciate that fully.
If you’d like to request a copy of this ebook, please continue reading to the end of today’s postβand, if you feel inclined, offer a comment.
In the meantime, as this post is intended as a tribute to YOU, I went searching for some inspiring writing that would Β epitomise that and help emphasise how special you are, dear reader.
I came across this simple quote that might easily have come out of a life coaching handbook:
“If you have a dream, do what it takes to make it come true.
If you have a goal, make it something you strive to accomplish.
If you have a hope, then hope for it with all your heart.β
It was ascribed to a gentleman called Collin McCarty. So, I did a little research on him. I found that he had authored a few books and collections of poems.
Then I delved a bit deeper and found a poem he wrote. “That’s it,” I thought. “This does perfect justice to the intent of today’s post.”
So here it is, specially for YOU!
24 Things to Always Remember, by Collin McCarty
“Your presence is a present to the world.
You are unique and one of a kind.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
Take the days just one at a time.
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
You’ll make it through whatever comes along.
Within you are so many answers.
Understand, have courage, be strong.
Don’t put limits on yourself.
So many dreams are waiting to be realised.
Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
Reach for your peak, your goal, your prize.
Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets.
Do not take things too seriously.
Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
Remember that a little love goes a long way.
Remember that a lot … goes forever.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
Lifeβs treasures are people together.
Realise that it is never too late.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Have health and hope and happiness.
Take time to wish upon a star.
And donβt ever forget …
For even a day …
How very special you are.”
Thank you, Collin, for your inspiring and truthful words.
Heart Work: Authentic Stories from the Frontlines of Life Coaching.
As a valued subscriber to New Insights On Lifeβand because you are specialβyou are most welcome to download a free copy of this ebook (in pdf format).
Just complete and submit the request form below. Then check your email inbox for a message with a link to the download page on the New Insights website. (Check your junk mail or promotions folder if you don’t appear to receive it)

hi Bill
thank you for the EBook and the good work you do. I always change my way of seeing life and things in a much better way every time I read your work.
Hi Phumla, that’s great to know that the blog/podcast is of value to you!
Hi Bill,
I hang on to every single word… it felt like you knew what my personal struggle are because every word was answering my unique me. Thank you.
Hi Rita. Thank you too for sharing this.
Being the amazing, unique people we are is a wonderful thing … but the surprising downside is that our uniqueness is often judged by some as being out of kilter with accepted stereotypes. Our cultivated desire for acceptance then leads us to feel that perhaps our uniqueness is a curse and we begin to see life as a struggle for acceptance. The way to break free from this is to seek authentic validation within.
I wish you well!
Thank you!!!
Thanks a lot Bill, for all new insights on Life Coaching and the free gift!
You’re welcome David!
Dear Bill,
I signed up for the New Insights Life Coaching course in 2016 because it resonated with my heart. Very quickly, I realised that New Insights was driven by an empowering and heartfelt personβyou (and everyone else responsible for putting together this incredible package). Becoming a New Insights Certified Life Coach changed the course of my life, personally and professionally. I look forward to reading the inspiring stories shared by other coaches. Thank you for being one of my teachers who changed my life for the better and more!
Hi Jana. Thank you. We look forward to your possible participation in the next one! π
Im always inspired when I listen to you and now I cant wait to read the e-book.
Thank you for all you do
That’s very kind of you, Lisa! Enjoy the book!
Thank you, Bill, for all the knowledge and wisdom that I received from you during my life coaching course. Although my life moved in a different direction from life coaching as a profession, I have never forgotten the lessons that I learned from undertaking the course, which I have constantly used to navigate my life and passed on to my sons, grandson and the numerous students that I have taught and tutored over the years. In many respects, the course has truly been my skills for life manual. Once again, thank you.
That’s a lovely endorsement, thank you Jean. It is so heartening to know how, by training just one person, we can, through that personβyou in this caseβ have a surprisingly profound effect on the world!
Hey Bill
So enjoyed reading the post (and all of your posts!) and I know I’m going to enjoy reading my free gift:))
Thank you so much for that and the ongoing inspiration.
Thank you Jacqui. We eagerly await your feedback!
Dear Bill,
Thank you for the gentle reminder about the blog. Iβm glad I finally had the chance to read it.
Your post was truly a treat and beautifully captured the essence of being βhuman-centered.β Thank you to you and all the contributors for the gift of ‘Heart Work’.
Reading through the heart-warming responses to your post further reinforced how special the coaching community is. I feel proud and grateful to be part of such a wonderful group of humans!
Warm regards
Louise
Thank you Louise – a special group indeed!
Hello Bill,
Thank you so much for your message from the heart, I feel truly special.
Thank you for the free gift.
Marcia
Glad you claimed it, Marcia!
Dear Bill,
I just wanted to take a moment to sincerely thank you for your beautiful and inspiring message. Your words truly touched my heart and reminded me of the power of kindness, encouragement and genuine connection.
Itβs rare to receive something so uplifting, and Iβm deeply grateful for the time and thought you put into it. Your message brought light to my day and motivation to keep moving forward with purpose.
What a lovely comment – thanks so much Nikki!
It was an honour and a privilege to be a part of this project, Bill – thank you!
I think when we are passionate about something we want to shout it from the rooftops to let everyone know, so this wasnβt a difficult task and it was so easy to be authentic!
I appreciate all that you and Jenni have given and if this inspires just one person to explore life coaching, whether as a client or a trainee coach, it will be amazing!
It really is the best and most rewarding βjobβ!
Thank you Rhona. Your story certainly exemplified the passion you speak of. Thank you for the awesome contribution!
Hi Bill
Life coaching is a life changer and I am passionate about it and live everyday using what I have learnt from you. Thank You π
Thanks so much for your kind comment and endorsement of this wonderful industry, Charmaine!
Hi Bill, what a lovely message and filled with heartbeats in every sentence. In a world that is shifting daily in so many ways, it is always beautiful to read uplifting and inspiring messages that are filled with hope, inspiration and tools for every step we take in making significant changes around us to bring about positivity. And you do this for us all. You provide more than just support to ensure that those who are in the coaching world (or considering this vocation) are constantly encouraged and enlightened. It is indeed a wonderful world when we see it through the eyes of “how can I help”. Thank you, blessings, Avy
Thank you Avy. And anyone reading your story will note that you certainly walk your talk when it comes to seeing the world through the eyes of “how can I help”!
Many thanks for the enlightenment.
You are most welcome!
Thank you, Bill
You always inspire us. You always point us in the right direction where we, each and every day, discover within ourselves that our own happiness and contentment are no longer just a shallow fleeting feeling driven by some external elements as we once believed. But wha was needed was just to put my house in order, and voilΓ …there they are. And that’s what The New Insights Life Coaching has done for me and continues to do for many others.
So, thank you, Bill
That’s a heartwarming comment. Thanks Jean-Claude, and my very best wishes to you!
Good afternoon to Bill and Jenny all the clients and all the coaches and their journey with New Insights Africa from the bottom of my heart. I want to say thank you so much to every one and Bill thank you so so much for supporting us and giving all of our coaches to be amazing coaches. God bless everyone πππππΎππππππ₯³
Hi Dulci. God bless you too for the amazing work you do in helping others reclaim their deserved self-esteem. Thank you!
Hi Bill Thank you for this heartwarming message and free gift.
Hi Karen. You, of all people, are so very welcome!
Good morning Bill, I want to take a moment to write back to you, not just in response to your kind tribute to the reader, but as a tribute to you. You have touched countless lives through New Insights and through your own way of being, with wisdom, humility, and generosity that never seeks the spotlight yet always leaves a light burning in others.
Your words carry both clarity and compassion, they reach people at a level that is rare, and they remind us that growth is possible at any stage of life. More than that, your actions have shown the depth of your heart, and your steady belief in the value of others has been a gift to everyone who crosses your path.
To me, you are not only the founder of a remarkable programme, you and Jenni are also a living example of what it means to live with authenticity, kindness, and courage. For that, I am deeply grateful, (You Guys changed my life.)
I really mean it hey, sorry it is so long I felt compelled to write it.
With respect and appreciation,
Len
Wow, Len. This is a wonderful surprise that made our day! I humbly thank you so much for your very kind words. Your own story (as encapsulated in ‘Heart Work’) is particularly inspiring and uplifting and I trust it will be read and appreciated by a great many!