“May you live in interesting times.”
This phrase, often attributed to Chinese philosopher Confucius who lived around 500BCE, is commonly cited as the translation of an ancient Chinese curse.
Interestingly, though, no definitive Chinese source for this saying has ever been found. Perhaps the most closely related Chinese saying is:
“Better to be a dog during peacetime than a human in times of war.”
Either way, the point is not lost. Given the intensely ‘interesting times’ that we are experiencing today, anyone could be forgiven for thinking that some ancient curse is indeed playing out right here and now.
This too will pass
However, as I was at pains to point out in the previous post, there is absolutely no need to succumb to a doom and gloom mentality.
In no way do I wish to minimise the tragic impact that the COVID-19 crisis has had on some people and their families or the serious collateral damage inflicted on the economy and, indeed our entire way of life … but, as the Persian adage goes: “This too will pass”.
The flip side
In the same way that there is a silver lining to every other challenge that life presents us with, this unique and truly global challenge has a flip side.
It may be difficult to accept that there can be any good associated with what feels like an unfolding global catastrophe, particularly if you are an avid follower of the news and its seemingly obsessive focus on numbers of infections and deaths.
It takes a disruptive force
But sometimes it takes a disruptive force to bring about a more enlightened way of thinking and a new and more positive approach to life.
The more ingrained our thinking and the more beholden we are to routines and established ways of doing things, the more disruptive the force that is required.
Anyone who is familiar with my writing – and indeed, the psychology of transformational change presented by New Insights in our life coaching and life coach training programmes – will know that I promote the idea of taking time out from ‘life as usual’ to reflect.
Time out
And that is precisely the opportunity that this crisis is forcing upon us in an unprecedented way: time out to reflect and rethink what we are doing, how we are doing it and why.
Who would have thought, just a few months ago, that a whole nation could be put into ‘lockdown’ with most people’s work and life routines being turned upside down for an indefinite period?
This is a disruptive force on a scale that most of us have never experienced before.
Hell in a handbasket, or …?
On the one hand it may seem like our crazy world is destined to ‘go to hell in a handbasket’; that we’ve started on a wild and uncertain ride and there’s not much we can do but hang on grimly.
On the other hand, perhaps we, as humanity, have attracted into our collective experience a very necessary time for the deep reflection that is required to promote a change of our ways.
Macro and micro level challenges
I would suggest that, on a macro level, we are being challenged to reflect on how our way of living needs to change to respect, heal and protect the climate and environment of the amazing planet that sustains our very existence.
At the next level we are being challenged to reflect on how we might design different political, economic and community systems that can bring about a step change in the way we produce and distribute wealth and resources to create a better standard of living for all.
And, at the micro level, each one of us is being provided with an opportunity and time out to reflect on what is is we truly want from life and the nature and scale of the changes we need to implement to bring that into being.
Interesting times
These are, indeed, most interesting times!
The disruption to ‘life as usual’ may seem unfortunate, uncomfortable, untimely and anxiety-inducing right now – the product of an ancient curse, if you like.
Or you may wish to look at it another way – as heralding a chance for a global time out, rethink and reset – an historic opportunity!
Think deeply
If like me, you prefer to see this as a painful but very welcome opportunity, let’s join together in ensuring we don’t let it go to waste!
Stay safe, keep well, think deeply 🙂
Thanks for your insightful article Bill. I always enjoy your blogs. Refreshing encouraging and positive …. so needed now. Like a breath of fresh air!!!
Thanks Marlene. I appreciate you taking the trouble to comment!
I agree! I think if anything good comes out of this it will be the increased sense of community and an appreciation and gratefulness for what’s important in life (family, friends, health, food, shelter, etc. – things which we previously took for granted.
Stay safe!
Let’s hope so 🙂
I also see the lock down as a Golden Opportunity to learn, grow and to do things differently. Never before has it been so crucial to gather information and to make wiser decisions that will have consequences that benefit others as well as ourselves. It is time to take our responsibility as citizens very seriously and to practise empathy, compassion and generosity rather than being selfish and self absorbed. Live in the moment, yes, but let us all develop a new habit by carefully considering the consequence of every single action.
Great words – thank you Karen!
This is a time for detox and reflection on all levels and in all life areas. An opportunity to get rid of every thing that is not necessary for living out our unique purpose and not help us grow and contribute as we should. Change brings challenges and choices – we must accept and overcome.
Indeed Michelle – thanks for your comment!
Hi Bill, you’ve captured the thoughts of many people for a time such as this. I’ve been thinking and journaling along similar lines and reflecting on the negative impact the lockdown might have on the different facette of society. But as an optimist, I like you, am more focused on the positive benefits that can come from this critical period. Indeed a time for deep reflection and renewal. Stay safe and stay home.
Thanks Henry – lovely to hear from you again!
Morning Bill, like you said it is a time to look for opportunities. I have always said it is better to give than receive. While I was praying of how I could help in these times, who cannot afford a life coach. I made a brief summary on the life wheel, and sent it to my boss, offering my services free of charge to the people who working or company. with things as they are, we may be in the process of retrenching people, and he now wants me to draw up an overview of the modules which he will send to all the staff during lock down. I have to present one module every two days. He asked what i would charge, it is not about the money, it is about doing to others. i have offered it to the bible college i was at, they want me to send overviews, the students are not in a position to pay. Time to give.
Good for you Chris. Your unselfish actions will surely have a very positive impact. In these difficult times, don’t forget about your own needs though. The individuals may not be able to afford coaching but I’m sure the company will be happy to match the value or some of the value they receive. 🙂