2024 is turning out to be a year for the people … at least as far as elections go.
Nearly 50% of the world’s population – more people than ever before – have voted, or will be voting, in over 60 countries around the world.
There are signs all over that people are tired of the status quo. They want change and are voting for it.
Unprecedented era
My adopted country, South Africa, enters an unpredented era with the formation of a government of national unity after thirty years of government dominated by a single party.
In the UK, my country of birth, recent polls suggest something of a change tsunami is about to engulf the party that has been in power for 14 years.
In France, an election is underway as I write this – and all indications are that the people are set to mandate sweeping political change.
The world’s most populous country, India, held an election in seven phases during April and May, culminating in the return of the ruling party but with a dramatic reduction in power.
And, perhaps the most talked about election will be held in November, as the USA, so-called leader of the free world, goes to the polls in a rematch of the 2019 election. There, disillusionment with the political landscape appears to be at an all time high amongst the populace.
Collective power
The thing is that, collectively, people wield enormous power to bring about change. Authoritarian governments and dictatorships around the world should be mindful of this. Even the most oppressive regimes will ultimately be toppled if their people become passionate enough about the need for change.
The power of the individual
But, though most people will freely acknowledge the power of the collective, many are quick to play down or ignore the power of the individual and, in particular, the power that exists within them specifically.
Those who read last week’s post will know that I am temporarily living in Bali. As I explained in that post, this is an amazing place for so many reasons, but primarily because of the happiness and friendliness exuded by the locals.
One unfortunate side effect of the burgeoning development and tourism is litter. Discarded plastic bottles and food wrappers line the roads and clog the drains. So, the enthusiasm which local shop owners show for sweeping and tidying their entrances might, at first, seem a little misplaced.
Amisha owns a Balinese coffee shop and, at the back, she operates a small spa. I arrived, one day, in search of a much needed morning cappuccino, to find her busy, sweeping the entrance to her shops and picking up litter to take to the bin.
I sat down and indicated my readiness to place an order. She dropped what she was doing, and greeted me with the customary broad smile and prayer-like gesture.
Choosing to engage in a bit of polite small talk, I told her how impressed I was with her cleaning efforts. Then, displaying a somewhat awkward sense of humour, I asked why she bothered, when the litter continued to build up around the periphery of the shop.
Her answer surprised me.
“I have the power to make a real difference to my own small area and doing so brings me happiness and contentment. The litter outside my property needs a collective effort to tackle and I pray that will come but I don’t lose sleep about it. I focus on what I can do that makes me feel good and when I feel good, my world is good and I can share my happiness with my customers.”
Because it makes me happy
Reflecting, later in the day, on what Amisha said, I was taken back to a beach walk on a beautiful day in Cape Town, many years ago, with my pre-teen daughter.
As is typical in the Cape, the wind had been howling the day before, resulting in a fair amount of litter being blown onto the beach, some of which had got caught up in the piles of seaweed washed up by the high tide.
I bent down to pick up a discarded colddrink bottle and my daughter asked curiously, “What’s the point of bothering with that one Dad, there are so many more that you can’t pick up.”
Without really thinking about it, I answered: “Just because it makes me happy.”
The greatest thing
The greatest thing about individual power is its ability to make us happy.
If we spend our lives thinking that the world around us is in a mess and, as an individual, we are powerless to do anything about it, we not only risk getting anxious and perhaps depressed … we miss the whole point.
Doing something, no matter how seemingly small, can bring happiness within. When we are happy within, the outside world looks and feels like a better, happier place. And then we feel more inclined to focus on everything that’s good about it instead of everything that’s not so good.
And, guess what, that way it keeps getting better!
Transformational life coaching
The essence of New Insights transformational life coaching lies in helping people re-discover and work with their amazing inner power to create greater personal freedom, self-confidence, growth, and happiness.
In this ‘hard edged’, materialistic world in which we are encouraged to put so much focus on others and what they think, the concept of an ‘inner power’ is often played down, ignored or even derided.
A happier life
Yet, it deserves our great respect and nurturing …
For it offers us a simple yet powerful connection to a happier life.
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Expecting others to make you happy lead to frustrations and disappointment. Happiness comes from within and is personal (we need to take the responsibility of making ourselves happy with the things that TRULY makes us happy). Some people are driven by wealth and material things to feel happy but i strongly believe happiness comes from simple small things. Self care and doing the things you love and enjoy brings sense of fulfillment. Thank you for sharing! Very interesting
Thanks for this great contribution Phuti!
You say “we need to take the responsibility of making ourselves happy”. I most certainly agree that this is a personal responsibility but I would argue that happiness is not something you ‘make’ yourself do but rather a state of mind/being that you allow into your life.
Once we connect with our inner being we begin to realise that we are simply actors in this play that is life and the only true way to enjoy our part is to recognise and accept that we have no control over how the play unfolds or over the actions and behaviours of other actors. Then, to use the opportunity to express ourselves, our love, our creativity, our playfulness fully in order to get the most out of our (brief) experience on stage!
I love Amisha’s answer so much – I think sometimes in trying to do great things, we lose sight of the great joy that simplicity can bring. Take responsibility for what you have control over and trust that the rest will fall in place. Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for your contribution, Penny!
great one
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Thanks for another great post and podcast Bill.
So many people are driven by a need for recognition from others to make them feel happy. I continue to guide from my own personal experience that, first and foremost, you must be a ‘fan’ of yourself. That is achieved by looking after your own wellbeing (health and mindset) in order to unlock the ‘power within’ to become truly content as a human-being.
Life coaching helps to tune your inner-self to the optimum frequency and that’s when we each realise that no one person can solve world-sized problems.
However, individually we can each make a difference through our thoughts, behaviours and actions – just like Amisha in her coffee shop.
Your adventures in Bali continue to show us all that amid what many might might see as challenges, it is important to recognise and celebrate every positive moment.
Thanks for adding some great, insightful value to the post, Duncan!
Greetings, and thanks for the important reminders, Bill. The powerful affirmation if too often glibly parodied: “Be the Change You Want To See In The World” calls out to each one of us, and surely now more than ever. Each of us individually, and more of us together simply must rise to the kairos moments and the rich possibilities of our time, if we are to turn the tide on tyranny, terror, and troubles besetting our globe (and nations) right now. If not us, then who?
Allow me to share a substack in which I reflect on these themes as well. For anyone interested to read
https://open.substack.com/pub/rogerarendse/p/we-need-to-rediscover-the-common?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=ql0vi
Many thanks Roger. Always good to hear from you!
What an outstanding blog, Bill. What if you were to shout it from the roof tops? Everyone is so busy looking down at their phones or taking selfies, that they’ve forgotten the power of one small action, particularly if it repeated consistently. Furthermore, the power within is underestimated and overlooked by most people who are brainwashed by the transitory sources of “happiness” that the world sells them – all day and every day. Once we press pause, start asking questions again and sharpen our awareness, we can choose to see and do things differently. The benefits are numerous. Contentment and fulfillment are the greatest of those benefits.
I love it – “transitory sources of happiness” – I couldn’t put it better myself.
Thank you for your powerful insights, Karen!